To Remember – To Forget

I hope someday I get to remember

– Madame President and her First Lady

I hope someday I get to forget

– That a cross burning in America happened in this decade

I would like to remember

– All the Spanish I learned in high school

I would like to forget

– The taste of my own toes on too many occasions

Sometimes I forget

– just how old I am

But my two over 30-year-old sons help me remember

– just how young I’m not

I forgot…

– How to tie a real bow tie

I remember…

– Your knowing smile when I tugged it loose in one smooth motion

If only I could remember

– The exact day, hour, minute I became your woman

If only I could forget

– The exact day, hour, minute I became your widow

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At dVerse we’re asked “How we forget” as inspired by the poem of the same name by Loyce Gayo. I went off track and chose a more personal route to remember as well as forget.

dVerse ~ Poets Rub | Poetics : How We Forget

22 thoughts on “To Remember – To Forget

  1. Perhaps we can talk Hillary into making THAT
    first one a reality sooner than we might
    think.. now wouldn’t that be
    beautiful if not only
    she wins
    but freely
    comes out
    of a closet
    of bisexuality
    as well.. after all
    the Kinsey study suggests
    that it is not that uncommon at
    all behind closed doors at least..
    and i promise you it is no longer
    NOT uncommon among females
    in the modern dance hall scene..
    smiles.. but anyway no chance
    of her and Bill getting
    divorced and her
    getting married
    to another
    woman..
    sometimes
    power speaks
    volumes over
    orientations
    of difference
    not spoken
    clearly
    enough..
    honesty is the best
    policy for human freedoms
    and what a hero she can be
    if she does speak more honestly
    about this.. it’s just like Bill’s
    putting it in his mouth
    and never
    really
    inhaling
    it.. i guess..
    or the definition
    of sex that has
    grown into
    hooking up now..
    as folks have gotten
    used to sex enough where
    the fertility rates are finally
    dropping as ‘IT’ just ain’t THAT
    big of a deal
    anymore..
    humans
    love taboo
    more than
    the real
    dam
    thing
    apparently..
    smiles..
    there are enough
    people anyway..
    truly it should be
    promoted as a healthy
    lifestyle for the earth to frigging survive..
    or just be like me and my wife
    and don’t have children..
    who survive at least..
    if THAT is what floats
    one’s
    boat..
    smiles
    again..
    The world will definitely
    survive if the leaders
    just let the commoners
    float their boats FREE
    AS GOD OF NATURE
    TRULY EVOLVES US
    TO
    BE
    OR
    NOT
    TO BE..:)
    (i want to
    end this
    rant on
    a POi
    G
    nant
    NOTe..;)

  2. I like the contrasting verses of what you are remembering and forgetting ~ I deliberately forget my age, smiles ~

    The ending lines tugged my heart as this is your personal share ~ Some memories will always stay with us ~

    Thanks for linking up and being inspired by the prompt ~ Have a good week ~

  3. A terrific idea to pair forgetting & remembering, doubling the scope of the prompt. I reads quickly, cleanly twice over–riveting concepts & imagery.

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